The nature of love

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If love is projected onto an object and obsessed, that love has already deteriorated. 

The essence of love is not love for the object, but love itself. 

We sometimes think that the feelings of love are dry or that we have lost the feelings of course. 

Love doesn't come with an object, it's not about losing love and finding it again from something else.

It's just confirming through a specific object that always existed like the truth self, 

and it can say similar to the experience of enlightenment.


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